banter
Welcome to my archived blog, Banter.
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Nobody is boring: how to make every conversation fascinating
My father, Warren Bennis, used to say that if we find someone boring, it means we are not asking the right questions. My father was never bored and found everyone utterly fascinating.
Your challenge this week:
Make a conversation interesting by asking new questions.
Here’s how my father worked his magic…
Vocal presence 2: listen deeper…
Last week, I asked you to simply listen to the voices of announcers on the radio. Just listen for the sounds of the voices.
This week, I want you to listen deeper. What can you tell about the person from their voice? Think about emotion, connection, present or reading?
Vocal presence: learn from the professionals by listening to the radio
This week, as you drive, or cook or even watch the news (you might have to close your eyes), listen to the voices of the hosts, guests, reporters, interviewers. Just listen. Notice. Next week we will do more with this.
Let’s begin.
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