banter
Welcome to my blog, Banter.
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Raising the Stakes
Remember the urban legend of the mother picking up a VW Bug to save her baby? That act is pure intention with immediacy and high stakes. That mother’s action, thought, behavior, voice, and words are completely aligned. Her Big Why, her overarching purpose, may be to raise an adult that will contribute to the world. Her immediate intention is simply to save her child. She is not thinking about herself, her own safety, what she might look like, or what others might think of her. Her focus on wholly on the child, the other. She takes immediate action in a matter of life and death. The highest stakes possible.
The above scenario has elements that we can translate into helpful tools for any speaker: role (mother), given circumstances (child under car), purpose (to care for this vulnerable human), intention…Read on.
Immediacy
When we set a clear intention for a talk, we infuse our words with purpose and clarity. Another technique that theater folks love to help crystalize our focus is immediacy: why is this topic vital right now, in this exact moment? Why can’t this wait one more second? In public speaking, immediacy can transform our message from being simply engaging to being utterly captivating. Immediacy brings a sense of vitality to the moment. Immediacy is what draws in an audience, what makes them lean forward and stay present. It’s a spark, an urgency that says, “This is important, and it’s important right now.”
Whenever we speak in public we ask ourselves…Read on.