“Can I join you for a game of pool?” “Any chance I can catch a ride?” “Want to go out sometime?” “I’d love to be considered for that job.” “Would you be willing to read and perhaps blurb my book?” “I’d love an introduction to your literary agent/HR person/dean/CFO…” In my mid-thirties I found myself single and thought I might as well throw caution to the wind and ASK my dearest friends if they know a “Great guy. Not just some guy who happens to be single. Someone wonderful.” Every one of them said something like, “Yes! I have always thought you should meet______!” All I had to do was ask and suddenly I was dating five different, fascinating, delightful, men. And I met my husband-to-be around month 3 of this adventure. Asking, letting people know what we want, being open about our dreams and desires, our plans and goals, is like opening a door to a whoosh of opportunity. Why ask? Read on…